You and gardening! What is the magnetism?

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  1. pete

    pete Growing a bit of this and a bit of that....

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    Cant remember a time when I wasn't into growing things, gardening is something different to me.
    You can like growing plants, eg houseplants, greenhouse plants but that is not actually gardening, as such.
    But I know the two are very similar and if you do one, you probably do the other.:biggrin:
     
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    • Freddy

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      Actually, a lot of truth in this. It was my Dad who inspired me. Not so much when I was young, although I knew he was into it. It was later when he was terminally ill that the penny dropped. I was lucky enough to spend a few years learning a bit from him (he was a great gardener) before he died. His big thing was growing veg, particularly growing big onions (Kelsae). He also loved to grow Chrysanths, hundreds of them. But there was nothing he couldn’t turn his hand to. He was the man that others turned to if they needed their gardens ‘doing’. No way I’ll ever be the gardener he was, but it’s nice to ‘garden’ as it feels like I’m keeping a bit of tradition going within the family, like a connection. Thirty years on, I still miss him greatly.
       
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        I had no choice..



        Family of farmers, uncle inhereted the farm, i inhereted the need to grow stuuff, its in my roots you see.
         
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          It's all about money for me, growing all my own fruit & veg saves a fortune
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          • Mike Allen

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            Thanks Pattie. Nice experience.

            Like you, once setting pen to paper. Ooops! typing to the forum, I could go on all night. "Oh NO" I hear someone say.

            Back to basics. My first encounter with gardening was at the age of five (1945). I was helping or more like, hindering my Father with lifting the potatoes. The rest of my love and relationship to gardening, plants etc probably reads like my CV.

            My life has consisted of being a slave of studying and research. Yes! I will anser to being. " Jack of all trades. Master of none."

            Anything relating to plants has become my Elixir of life. Despite having earned my living in different vocations, horticulture has always been there for me. I have a tiny garden cose to Eltham Palace. Nothing spectacular. I tend to specialise in roses, fuchsias and lilies. Now as an oldie, my time continues to be taken up with studying. Having gone through most of todays groundwork etc. I now content myself with Studying the microscopic world of plants etc. I am a plant pathologist & to a degree a soil scientist. Much of todays interest is to keep the old grey matter working.

            I have some interesting memories of the past.
             
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              I tell hubby that but then spend a fortune on compost, growbags and of course I'll need feed, possibly new pots, ..the hose is looking a bit weathered,..... I definitely need a new watering can,........those canes look past their best..............we need stronger string.... etc, etc, :rolleyespink: :heehee:
               
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                @Mike Allen Have you ever seen the Blaschka Collection? If you ever get over to Boston this collection is in Harvard University and open to the public. There are thousands of glass botanical models of plants in such detail that there is almost microscopic detail. It's used by their botanical students for their studies.

                https://hmnh.harvard.edu/glass-flowers
                 
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                  I can't really remember my first proper interest in plants and growing things. The earliest memory I have of looking at plants properly was back in the 1940's. Our cat had climbed our Laburnum tree and was playing with the flowers. So I climbed the tree and joined in. We used to sit in the tree, cat on my lap, and relax. :cat-kittyandsmiley:

                  I had my own patch in my parents' garden but have no idea what I used to grow. When Mrs Shiney and I bought our first house, 52 years ago, it had a nice garden and Mrs Shiney loved it and became interested in plants (never had a garden before then). I still see the person who sold it to us as we're members of the same club. :blue thumb:

                  Mrs Shiney took such a strong interest in growing things that it became infectious. She started studying plants, learned their Latin names and tried to understand everything about them and their likes and dislikes. She became the 'expert' and I became the 'boy'.

                  Over the years she has gradually changed her philosophy about plants. She loves anything that grows but takes the 'received wisdom' about them with a pinch of salt. Her belief is that if you want to grow something you should, treat them well, talk to them nicely and they'll grow for you. Her typical attitude when questioned about things in our garden reminds me of the question she was asked about a magnificent display of camellias we had. We have clay (neutral) soil and she was asked if she added any ericaceous matter to the soil. When she replied that she doesn't they (very keen gardeners from here on GC) asked how they managed to do so well. Her answer was typical of her "If you don't tell them they're not supposed to like the soil, they won't know! :heehee:".

                  Our garden is totally non-formal and we rarely removed any self-seeded plants or ones that have outgrown their position (shudders from professional gardeners :whistle:). It makes for an interesting garden that changes over the years.

                  Many GC members have been to our garden and we have a good turnout of members when we open our garden for charity each May. We're not in the Yellow Book although they have asked us to be in it (we get about 500 people turn up if the weather is OK). For those of you that don't know about our Open Day I hope to have the publicity on here by the end of the month. Lots of plants for sale (propagated by Mrs Shiney) and we usually sell over 1,000 plants in a day. GC members take the opportunity to bring 'swaps' for each other. Everyone welcome and I can give detailed directions.

                  We hope to see a lot of you then. We're a crazy bunch but fun!
                   
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                  • Chesterfieldgardener

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                    "I don't recall being given a choice!"


                    Well, what's not to like?
                    "Lawn mowing"
                    Well ok, but aside from that?
                    "Digging allotment plots in the cold"
                    Well, ok, granted... But think of all the food!
                    "Battling with slugs, caterpillars, etc."
                    Well I'm sure you can't find fault with maintaining a lovely flower and shrub garden!
                    "Ripping yourself to shreds when pruning hawthorne hedges"
                    Umm...have you thought of taking up knitting?
                    Hey! how am I supposed to knit with paws? Besides - I'm busy guarding the compost bin!






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                    • pete

                      pete Growing a bit of this and a bit of that....

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                      That is a good point John.
                      But I sometimes wonder how much money we do save when you take into account fertilisers, seed, water, time and effort etc. etc.

                      I think if you were only doing it in order to save money it would become a chore.
                      I think we all do it mainly because we enjoy it.:)
                       
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                      • "M"

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                        ... minimum wage ...
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                          No fertilisers, virtually nothing for seeds, water - yes, OK a little money for that, time - what's a little old pensioner got to do with his time? :old: :heehee:, effort - Ooh, my poor back! :snorky:

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                          • pete

                            pete Growing a bit of this and a bit of that....

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                            I'd use no fertilisers if I had access to manure, but even that stuff has a price tag.;)
                             
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                              But he gave you a great legacy with his knowledge, Freddy, and he gave you a Benchmark in Life, now that's a great Dad and Man.:thumbsup::coffee:
                               
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                                We have lots of home produced compost and horse manure is free around here. :blue thumb:
                                 
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