A very humble apology.

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  1. Mike Allen

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    A few days ago, Amandii replied or whatever to one of my forum posts. I took it as being a ticking off. I am used to technical and scientific papers being, 'Peer reviewed' I felt that my friend was having a go at me. My response was to say goodbye.

    I still feel that any kind of personal critatism should be made via, a PM. Never mind.

    In all honesty, I have been bored out of my mind. To be honest I have very little contact now, with the outside world. Trust me please. Being on your todd almost 24/7 is a lonely place to be.

    Yes. Cap in hand. Can the slate be wiped clean. Please Sir. Can I return to the fold?
     
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      @Mike Allen
      Welcome back; though to be honest I hadn't noticed you had "self isolated".
      I know what that's like.
       
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      • shiney

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        Welcome back - albeit from a very, very short break :) :grphg:
         
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          Good morning @Mike Allen we all take a break from time to time my friend so no apology needed,sometimes real life can get in the way:grphg:
           
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            Mike, you should only take your Cap off when in front of a Lady or indoors and, since you've never left the fold, not in this case, especially as we are all equal on this forum.

            Mike, believe it or not, there are a quite a few of the GC Gang who are in the same boat and that's partly why GC is here.:dunno: So you are not alone, my friend:love30::thumbsup:

            Mike, it wasn't a criticism, merely that new members asking a question can get bewildered when unused to our brand of GC humour. So, in answering problem cases for new members we try not to confuse the new gardeners with a rich diet of humour and, I think, everyone knows I am one of the main culprits of teasing, joking, and an overrun of humour.
            PM or Open?, would you have been offended less if I had pm'd you?, my friend, I think probably not. Besides, although I have more faults than others, I try to be open and honest, which is why I used the Open Forum.
            Stay with GC, Mike, and all of your friends of which one of them is me:love30::thumbsup::cat-kittyandsmiley::coffee:
             
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              This is the kind of community I want to be in, this is the kind of space where I feel safe to make mistakes and to apologise and to forgive and to be forgiven in public. Honest, respectful straight talk.

              10/10 for Gardeners' corner and the community.

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                No idea what I have missed here (sorry folks, I have been somewhat lacking in the attention span department this past few weeks, mostly due to pain), however I would echo the sentiments here @Mike Allen - I think we all get a little fed up from time to time (I get fed up of myself most of the time, so I can only imagine how fed up Mrs C must be of me! :heehee:), and that may lead to us taking a day or three away from the forum once in a while. As long as you return after the break, then all is good.

                I've known our @ARMANDII a lot of years now, and have known his kindness on many occasions, and for sure I can say that he would never intentionally offend; likewise, I have seen first hand your kindness @Mike Allen (I still have your gift of that wee bay tree in a nice pot on my patio) and know that you too would never intentionally offend; I further know that both of you are men of the utmost integrity.

                You haven't left the fold, you aren't leaving the fold and hopefully you can put up with us lot on here for a bit of company once in a while.
                 
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                  Mike, you keep on posting, I dont always agree, but that is the point, we all have different opinions, so just say what you feel.;):smile:

                  We all get lonely at times and best you tell us about it rather than keeping it to yourself.
                   
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                    [QUOTE="Mike Allen, post: 1245397,

                    Yes. Cap in hand. Can the slate be wiped clean. Please Sir. Can I return to the fold?[/QUOTE]


                    Was not aware you had left as I have been pretty busy lately and glad that you came back :)
                     
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                    • Cuttings

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                      Can't leave us now Mike, communities like this need every personality, in their good bad or ugly modes, if you need to chat, and I'm online just pm me, I can chat for England.
                       
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                        @Mike Allen i hadn't noticed that you had left, sometimes people don't post for a while, but glad that you stayed.:smile:
                         
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