13 year old father

It seems like they're queueing up to claim they are the
baby's father :cnfs:

 

Thank goodness my 13year old runs a mile at the sight of a girl!!!
I was just reading that 2 under 16 year old boys are demanding DNA tests (or rather their parents are!!)
Apparantly they both had the consent of her parents to sleep with her in her bed (with NO contraception!!) And all the parents we well aware of what was going on.
Well, with parents who allow under age sex with absolutely no cares about contraception, this girl has got a pretty bleak future to look forward to. She obviously has been dragged up with no morals at all.
It was only earlier this week in our local paper there is a 17 year old expecting triplets!! She already has a 2 year old with a different father. And I quote " We didn't want kids, but we didn't use any contraception, and I was surprised when I got pregnant". Have these kids got NO IDEA??? It is free from the doctors, the family planning and you can also get the morning after pill - there really is no excuse for unplanned pregnancies. But it is also a free meal ticket, compliments of us hard working tax payers, for them to get out of doing a decent days graft, a key to a front door and as many benefits as you can shake a stick at.
When my husband was made redundant, we couldn't even get free school dinners for our children. With the very bleak outlook for this year - we stand a real chance of losing our house and everything we have grafted for over the last 20 years. It makes me sick to the pit of my stomach.

 

It sounds harsh and sexist, but nature has a fair bit to do with that. We too often forget that humans are just a type of animal, complete with hormones and instincts. For a boy of 12/13, he is going through puberty. He is a walking bag of testosterone without the experience to know how to control his new overwhelming urges. I dare say that for most 12/13 year old boys, the only thing that stops them from being promiscuous is that fact that most girls would either not even notice they exist, or laugh and belittle them.

Some teenage girls are promiscuous. That's not unusual. They have hormones and instincts too. Their instincts would usually drive them towards a man who in some way appears to them to be suitable breeding material (though some of the choices some lasses make can be hard to fathom). Without even realising they are thinking it, they would usually be more attracted to someone that they perceive to be of good stock. Maybe someone who is financially sound and generous, or maybe someone that is physically capable of defending her and her offspring in the event that someone threatens them. What I don't get is how these primal instincts could drive a 15 year old girl to a baby faced 12 year old boy.

When I was a student, it was quite common for condoms to be handed out free, and not very discreetly (in fact very openly) in the local bars. In fact I remember one occasion when I was sat outside on a sunny afternoon having a drink with a group of friends (of both genders), when I nice young lady came over carrying a bucket full of condoms, and very openly she asked "free condoms guys? Help yourself", at which point each of us grabbed a handful while barely pausing our conversation.

I don't think we should describe Mars Bar parties on such a clean forum as this. Suffice to say that good girls and boys would never partake of such a thing.

 

Condoms are given out free in every gay pub, bar and club. The gay community have realised the problem with sexually transmitted diseases and faced up the fact that only protection will curb it. There is no stigma with grabbing a handful after a night out, you're applauded for it in fact. If only the straight scen had the same outlook, from sex education upwards.

Apologies for the comment re mars bars!

 

Jack, I see you live in "The Smoke", Well, it was Walthamstow (E.17). Pity I didn't know you then, we could have a right laugh.:wink:

 

Lets not delude ourselves, In the past this sort of thing did occur but society was different and the children were taken into care, adopted or looked after quietly by the familys of the parents, things were kept hushed up.

The difference today is that to a degree its more socially acceptable to talk about, particularly so by the media. I don't know of anyone in my age group who became pregnant at 13 but at 15 there were quite a few and plenty of sleeping around.

 

I think he had a lot of help from the older lads and it is a publicity thing, a wind up I just don't believe him. Bet he is not he dad.

 

Well my mum (Hel) prepared me from a youngish age and showed me where the condoms were from a young age and even told me to use them or she'd @!"£ $%£ !%&*out of me (use your imagination haha). I think I had condoms a good 4-5 years before I even had someone to use them with :p.

Also I googled "mars bar parties" and laughed a little...... The interesting names we give to sexual acts haha.

 

About 30 years ago. A co-worker was going to nursing school. And one of his class assignments was community nursing. He told me as he was walking on to a porch to see the family assigned he happened on a 10 year old boy and a 8 year old girl "getting it on" right there on the front porch.

 

Just googled it myself, how disgusting-what a waste of a perfectly tasty bar of chocolate.

The game of "nervous" seems laughably tame by comparison. A boy put his hand on your ankle and worked it up slowly until you said "nervous". I think I have lead a sheltered life-especially after reading what Red had to say.