The chapter you missed.

Hi Whiley, I can't think of anything insightful to say apart from you clearly have alot to feel sad about, but from what I have seen of you on GC, an awful lot to be happy about too.

I won't bore you with my banana tales but a loving relationship and plenty of hobbies will keep you the right side of bananas :eek:

Take care mate x

 

Hello Whiley,

I think you are very brave, but also very lucky.


Nice to meet you.

Kind rgards

 

Welcome back, Sarah. Very nice photo`s, and it`s good to hear, you`ve got a doc who know`s what he`s talking about.:thumb::D

 

David! Hey :D Thank you so much. :]

 

Hi Whiley,when i was a little girl, my old nan used to say to me, `dinn`t tak on so lass`.
Wise words.
Folk will do what they`re gonna do regardless.80% of depression and all the dark places that go with it are the company we keep.Trying to understand and excuse other peoples actions will only bring you down.So, get shot of the idiot lodger and look after yourself.
You sound like a kind and sensitive person and i`m a big believer in cause and effect.Your confidence will grow now you know the score so don`t shy away from it.We all have a part to play and your opinion is as good as anybody`s.:thumb:

 

Whiley, it is often the case that we often find it easier to talk (write) on a forum then to discuss certain things with friends and family.

You have now sorted out as to where you want to go from here and you have a very positive outlook so keep with it and you know what..........you will get there.

I write on another forum and did discuss my health issues and leant on friends on there for support because I needed all the support I could get and also because it made me realise that there are people out there who do genuinely care for others.

Having read what you have written, it makes me think that you a are a pretty strong person anyway and so you will handle each challenge as it comes your way.

all the very best to you

 

Hi Whiley, I've only just caught up with your thread. I'm so pleased that things are looking up for you. My nephew had ME although he seems to be coming out of it now and he was only young - early 20's. I know all about depression, anxiety etc so know where you're coming from on that score.

Your photo's were lovely!

Good luck with everything, keep us informed with how you're getting along.

cheers

 

Will do, thank you Borrowers and all!

I've been setting myself little challenges, today i took a bus journey alone into town and went to my church for the first time in over ayear. Nearly had a panic attack but a lovely family spotted me and took care of me and i was happy in the end :D Exhausted now but feel better for achieving it.

Tomorrow i'm going to town again to pick up birthday presents for my friends, so might be a bit harder work but i'm hopeful and Darren will be there after he finishes work to help me and drive me home as i'll be exausted and things will get heavy and hard to walk.

But i'm doing well!

 

Well done whiley, each little step etc. I'm not being condesending (sp?) I don't go anywhere without my h/b or car! Haven't been to the 'town' for years, so good for you. Keep it up.

cheers

 

Thank you lovely ladies. I always value your thoughts and messages, they keep my heart beating.

 

I just thought I would bounce this thread up since we were talking about mice yesterday and the lady above "whiley" she was really really into mice.

she had a lot of them and she was bathing them and all sorts!
I hope she is fine :yess: