Grave cleaning.......

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  1. Caveman

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    I tended the family grave on Sunday ... we had it prof cleaned about ten years ago ... it cost a fortune

    Again it is covered in grey mould or alge and can hardly read the leaded writing

    Any ideas on what i can clean the marble with easily and with out damaging the lead

    Thanks in advance
     
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    Just a gentle solution of Washing Up liquid should do the trick, Caveman. I take it the ground around is clay and retains water which would encourage mould. Ten years is a long time for anything to be exposed to wind, rain, snow, ice etc without some thing "weathering" the surrounds and headstone. Only regular maintenance will keep it clean and free from mould and algae.:dunno: :snork:
     
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    And, use a wire brush.
     
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    Be carefull round the writing though:dbgrtmb:
     
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      Yes be careful, lead needs to be sealed with 'patination' oil to prevent it making white stains on the marble. I'd use a soft brush and soapy water.
       
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      • Phil A

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        Yep, don't use a ferous wire brush as tiny bits break off & leave rust stains eventually.

        Ph neutral detergent, soft or phosphor bronze brush, after its washed down seal the marble with a microcrystaline wax:)
         
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          You have a family grave????!!!!!!???? I have not seen my parents grave in 20+ years. Visiting family grave sites are something I don't understand that folks do.
           
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          To be honest redstar niether do I - they are all cremated.
           
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          Something we feel we should do, feel guilty if we don't do, and then feel thoroughly miserable afterwards!!! :sad: :dunno:

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          It's a thing that you do or you don't, I guess. I'm a Sad Sack and visit my wife's grave every day. I also visit my Dad's grave around 3 or 4 times a year to make sure that it is in a good state. I visit those graves because the people were people that I still love [I've never quite understood the past tense "loved" when you lose somebody], does that mean you've stopped loving them??:scratch: Does it mean you've consigned them to the past, to be forgotten??? Perhaps I envy people who can "move on".:dunno: Me?, I look to the future but I don't forget my past.

          I would avoid any kind of wire brush for use on a marble headstone to be honest, Caveman, as it will only act as an abrasive

          Is really good advice from Ziggy, as usual:snork:
           
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            A very nice lady/girl from Chelmsford Cemetery and Crematorium was nice enough to send me a couple of snaps of my maternal grandparents Gravestone. I know it is hard to believe, but I only realised I had another set of grandparents when I was well into my teens :heehee:

            Cheers, Tony.
             
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              Mum not letting on then? Mine did that about 2 Brothers and a Sister. Mum's are odd.
               
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                I use Armillatox to clean our family headstones every year.. It is an excellent soap based product & used with a nylon scrubbing brush gently then rise well & rub dry with a cotton cloth.. I seal them with Marble wax & they stay looking lovely.... I do this each year.. :SUNsmile:
                 
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                  Isn't that used to kill Honey Fungus?
                   
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                  Attitudes to death and remembrance are very diverse. We lost a tot who was cremated but don't feel any need to visit where his ashes are but he's still very much in our hearts.
                  Mrs W wants a simple woodland burial, and all her side of the family were buried with headstones and a lot of palaver - open coffins, lying in the church etc.
                  I've a very pragmatic approach. Since matter i.e. me can be neither created nor destroyed I want the cheapest, most space saving and eco-friendly option and to be returned to the environment in my component elements where the plants and trees will take me up.
                   
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