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  1. Fat Controller

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    Oh God, what an awful thing for you all to go through. You don't need us to tell you (but we will anyway, I'm sure), be gentle with yourself for a while and if you are in need of a cyber-hug, we are all here for you.
     
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    • maria

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      oh i am so so sorry to hear this xx (((hugs))) cant imagine how hard it is xx
       
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      • Phil A

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        Blimey Andy :sad: :grphg::grphg::grphg:
         
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          My heart goes out to you, I am so sorry this happened.

          Will certainly look up the charity.
           
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            Hi Andy so sorry to hear your sad news,please look after yourselves,both of you:grphg::grphg:
             
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              So very sorry to read this. :sad:
               
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                It's very difficult to know what to say at such times, but I think it's really courageous of Loofah to be able to post this at such a tragic time.
                 
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                • Jenny namaste

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                  :grphg: for you Andy and your dear lady,
                  Jenny
                   
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                    Not enough words to express my feelings for you and your good lady, Andy, but we're all here for you.
                     
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                    • Lolimac

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                      So very sorry:grphg::grphg::grphg::grphg::grphg::grphg::grphg:
                       
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                        I'm sorry to hear your sad news Andy. :grphg:
                         
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                        • HarryS

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                          Must have been really hard to post your sad loss on here Andy. I do hope you both can take some comfort from your friends replies on here.:grphg:
                           
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                            My feelings go out to you both Andy.

                            We had a very similar experience with our first one, after 6 months the baby died so Mrs JWK had to be induced. It was a terrible experience, even after 35 years the memory hasn't faded. In those days we felt very isolated, we lived a long way away from our families, but a few cards and letters arrived from uncles/aunts and that really lifted our spirits. I hope our comments on here do the same for you.

                            We went on to have three lovely healthy kids after that.
                             
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                              :grphg::grphg::grphg::grphg::grphg::grphg::grphg: So so sorry.
                               
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                                How very sad to hear your news. Mrs. Shiney says you should both take Rescue Remedy (any health shop will sell it). It is made from five flowers and is very helpful at times like this (shock, grief, etc.) You can even put 2-3 drops into your bath as it helps release the trauma. Our thoughts are with you both. :grphg:
                                 
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