Bereavement

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  1. Dorsetmike

    Dorsetmike Gardener

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    My dear wife Joyce passed away in the night, whatever it was it was quick and not really expected. The hospital seemed to think the chemo was doing its job according to their xrays. So maybe the chemo had lowered her defences elsewhere. Doctor seems to think it was either a heart attack or an embolism.

    Not really sunk in yet though.
     
  2. borrowers

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    I'm so sorry Mike. I, as I'm sure many others, are thinking of you.

    I wish there was something to say. Sincere condolences.
     
  3. youngdaisydee

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    So sorry, to hear the sad news Mike...Sending you a Hug..Dee..
     
  4. Slinky

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    Sorry to hear that mike m8, My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Rest in Peace Joyce


    Slinky:(
     
  5. Marley Farley

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    Oh my goodness Mike, I am so sorry to hear. You must be in shock at the moment, but she was so lucky to go in such a quick way without pain & suffering.
    My condolences to you & thinking of you at this very difficult time..
    We are all here for you, any time you know that..;)

    :) Mike this says so much.. I find it a comfort..

    Do not stand at my grave and weep,
    I am not there,
    I do not sleep.
    I am in a thousand winds that blow,
    I am the softly falling snow.

    I am the gentle showers of rain,

    I am the fields of ripening grain.
    I am in the morning hush,
    I am in the graceful rush,
    Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
    I am the starshine of the night.
    I am in the flowers that bloom,
    I am in a quiet room.
    I am in the birds that sing,
    I am in each lovely thing.

    Do not stand at my grave and cry,

    I am not there.
    I do not die.....
     
  6. Pro Gard

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    Mike,

    Very very soory to hear, My thoughts are with you.
     
  7. Victoria

    Victoria Lover of Exotic Flora

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    Mike, we know it was expected but it came a bit sooner .... and thankfully quickly.

    Like the others have said, my thoughts are with you at this difficult time and we're all here if you need to talk. xx





     
  8. The Nut

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    Dear Mike,
    This comes to say
    That many thoughts,
    Sincere as they can be,
    Are going out to you today
    In deepest sympathy.

    Angie x
     
  9. pete

    pete Growing a bit of this and a bit of that....

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    Very sorry to hear this Mike.:(

    Look after yourself mate.
     
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    [​IMG] My condolences, also from all the staff. May God give you peace.
     
  11. roders

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    So sorry to here your terrible news Mike.
    Words are not enough.
    Our thoughts are with you at this SO sad time.
     
  12. strongylodon

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    What can I say Mike, unexpected or not, it is a great shock and my thoughts are with you.
     
  13. Anthony

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    Hi Mike.

    My heartfelt condolances to you and your family. You'll all be in my prayers.

    Ant.
     
  14. Banana Man

    Banana Man You're Growing On Me ...

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    Sorry to hear your sad news Mike:(, take it easy:thumb:
     
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    Mike our hearts goes out to you at this very difficult time for you and your family
     
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