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  1. Janet mahay

    Janet mahay Gardener

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    Hi I have been unable to tell anyone till today I am still numb but my beautiful cat tiggs passed away Tuesday it was a complete shock he was perfectly ok in morning he was fit had his food then hour and half later he died we rushed him to vets but they could do nothing to save him he wasnt that old 13 years /6 months I am just devastated also I dont know how I am going to tell my daughter whos in America she rescued him she just lost her mother in law Iast week and funeral tomorrow
     
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      Oh that is so sad, 13 isn't very old for a cat, I've had them live into their 20s.
      I can understand you feeling devastated, it was a sudden shock for you. You have all my sympathy.
      I remember a cat we had who died suddenly from a blood clot at 6 yrs old. That was 10 years ago but I still have difficulty talking about it, and I still feel tears in my eyes if I look at photos of her.

      Sympathy also to your daughter and her husband in their loss. What a terrible time for you all.
       
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        That is so terrible, sorry for you and your family and hope you can find a way to tell your daughter.
         
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        So sorry to hear this. RIP Tiggs.

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        Really sorry to hear that :grphg:
         
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        So sorry about your loss. This year we lost two cats. Our old lady of 22 passed on Nov. 22. and in the fall our 18 year old guy left us. Right now , no paws to greet me in the house, to look for me. Hugs.
         
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        • Janet mahay

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          So sorry redstar losing 2 I really feel for you thankyou every one for your kind words I talk my daughter sometime next week not looking forward to it
          Today 2female cats were looking in yard for tiggs and one sat on his grave in the garden the poor pets it was upsetting to see
           
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            I feel so sorry for you. It is a year now since we lost Lucy and I still miss her so.
             
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              I lost my old friend Zoe, not a cat but a collie dog 10yrs ago, so I know how it feels, nothing replaces them but they had a good life in your care, so dont beat yourself up over it which we often do.:smile:
               
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                So, so sorry, Janet. I hope the sharp edge of the grief softens for you soon. Try to focus on what a lovely life he had with you, and that he went quickly and cleanly without suffering. :grphg:
                 
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                • Janet mahay

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                  You so true he had a good life because the firstyear if his life he had 3homes in a year. So my daughter rescued him before they was going to put him asleep he was wild and no wonder what he went through i wish he stayed longer with us though oh i do miss him especally at night but thanks for your kind words
                   
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                    I understand your devastation Janet. Try to be comforted by the fact that you and your daughter gave Tiggs a good life he may not otherwise have had. You must miss him dreadfully.
                     
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                      So sorry for your loss Janet, it's so shocking when they go like that, one of our dogs went like it and one of our others passed away 12 days before him.
                      He had a good life with you after what he'd been through, so think of the good times.
                       
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