OK - it is my turn now, listen up folks!

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  1. Fat Controller

    Fat Controller 'Cuddly' Scottish Admin! Staff Member

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    That time of year (the end) has come around once more, and somewhat more quickly than many of us were ready for! So, I wanted to take a moment to say a HUGE thank you to each and every member of GC.

    This past year has probably been one of the most difficult of my life - some of you know what has been going on (notable thanks to @ARMANDII, @Sheal, @silu, @wiseowl, @shiney, @Zigs, @Marley Farley, @Webmaster & @ricky101 to name but a few) whilst others have only had a glimpse as to the goings on. In short, I have had no less than two cancer scares (one brain tumour, the other thymus cancer) during the course of this year, and have had an [almost] certain diagnosis of Mysathenia Gravis to add into the mix - my health has taken an utter nose-dive in the past 2 years, with the acceleration of my condition(s) increasing in the past year. I am now at the stage where I am taking so many pills (9 tablets in the morning for starters) that I am scared I might shoot someone if I fart......

    My employment situation has been fragile at best (I remain on a temporary contract), which has only added to the problems, and like 99.5% of people I have watched prices and costs go up year on year with a declining income.......

    BUT, through all of this, there has been two MASSIVE constants - my family, of course, being the first and foremost. The second, are the good people of GC.

    If you have read this far, this is the important bit - - THANK YOU for being you; THANK YOU for your company, friendship and general camaraderie over this past year. You may not have even been aware of the effect that your posts, and company, have had; I can sincerely assure you the effect has been VAST.

    I was lucky enough to make Shineyland this year for the first time (emphasis on the first, as it definitely isn't the last!) and in addition to meeting the most warm-hearted and generous @shiney and Mrs Shiney, I was blessed with being able to put faces to many names (and even got an early preview of @Beckie76's bush! :biggrin:, whilst @"M" educated me on the finer points of Asparagus!).

    I cannot overemphasise this enough - you are ALL amazing, warm, friendly people and I consider myself truly blessed to know each of you in one way or another.

    I wish every single GC member the very happiest, and the most prosperous of New Year's - may your every wish be fulfilled in 2018!
     
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    • Sheal

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      Yes, it has been a really difficult year for you FC and I for one am happy to have given you some support through it. You know I'm here for you whenever you need an ear dear friend. :) You've amazed me how you've managed to hold things together and I truly hope that 2018 is much kinder to you. I also hope that you get a confirmed diagnosis in the new year so at least you know what you're dealing with. And.....that your work issues may be sorted out before too long.

      On the other side of the coin, you are a kind hearted and generous person that is willing, despite your own problems, to help out with my computer issues. You give your time without complaint, even though you may not feel up to it - not only for me but our fellow members of GC. :love30:

      You're a star :star: and I wish you the very best for the New Year.....and don't over do it!

      Well, I had to nag you somewhere along the line eh? ;) :snorky:
       
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      • toppington

        toppington Tiny garden, always on the cheap!

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        The best of health and happiness to you FC. You always seem to have a bit of happiness and sillyness in your posts, it's lovely to keep that no matter what else is happening!

        All good and well wishes to you. And a big well done and celebration of all the lovely people on here too! Cheers!
         
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        • shiney

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          Mrs Shiney and I wish you all the very best for the New Year. :grphg:

          We hope that your health problems are sorted out soon and that your job future settles down properly (your employers need a very good, new year, kick up the backside :old:).

          Despite all your problems you have remained cheerful, have given a lot of time to your GC friends and have been extremely helpful and generous with all your superb technical know how. :blue thumb:

          Even when you came down to Shineyland to spend an enjoyable and relaxing day with the GC crowd you were still willing to help when there was a technical, computer/electronic problem with the sound system. I watched you do your amazing magic on the computer where you asked the singer what the problem was and your fingers flew over the keyboard whilst a load of incomprehensible numbers and words scrolled up the screen at high speed. Within minutes you had sorted the problem out and the performers were able to go ahead as though there had been no panic behind the scenes. They also send their best wishes. :)

          I've left @Sheal to do the nagging :snorky:

          :Wino:
           
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          • Jiffy

            Jiffy The Match is on Fire

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            Wish you all the Happiness in the world FC and may 2018 be much kinder to you, you are a true star :star:
             
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              Hope you have a better 2018.
               
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              • Kandy

                Kandy Will be glad to see the sun again soon.....

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                Sorry to hear you have had a rough year with your health problems @Fat Controller and I do hope that the news you hear in the near future turns out ok and that you are able to cope with love and support from your family and also your friends on here whatever life throws at you:grphg: x
                 
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                • "M"

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                  ... :shhhhh: which is why I've been keeping my distance! :oops: :fearful:

                  :grphg: :grphg: :grphg:

                  Every thing I may have said has already been said above so it only leaves me to send it DOUBLED!!

                  Just one little thing no one else could have said: thank you for pairing me up with Sylvia ;) She is as good as you said she would be :thumbsup: :shhhh:
                   
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                  • pete

                    pete Growing a bit of this and a bit of that....

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                    Wanted to hit "like", "friendly" and "informative" all at the same time there FC.
                    Hope things look up for you in the New Year mate.:smile:
                     
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                    • Sandy Ground

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                      I second that!
                       
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                      • Ned

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                        Well Mr FC, I thought you would have your actual diagnosis by now. It seems to take forever these days, now the NHS is so stretched! Let's hope that 2018 will turn up some nice surprises for you and yours.... and a little decorum would be good, it's ''phart'' - much nicer!
                        Stay positive pal x
                         
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                        • Freddy

                          Freddy Miserable git, well known for it

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                          Crikey FC, I had no idea things were so bad! I had a cancer scare myself tail end of last year, not nice at all. I can only echo what others have said, and hope things improve for you. All the best matey :thumbsup:
                           
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                            So sorry to hear of your difficult year FC. Your sense of humour shines through on your posts and no one would know what challenges you have faced. I hope the year ahead is better for you.
                             
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                            • Fat Controller

                              Fat Controller 'Cuddly' Scottish Admin! Staff Member

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                              Bless you all, and thank you again :) We never know what is around the corner, so here's hoing that 2018 holds some nice surprises and successes for us all - and hopefully some good weather so we can have our gardens looking lovely! :biggrin:
                               
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                              • silu

                                silu gardening easy...hmmm

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                                If anybody deserves a great 2018 it's you @Fat Controller. I do hope you will find the opportunity to visit me when you are up this way. I can then thank you in person for all the help you have given this NON computer expert (this is putting it mildly:)) plus all the fun and laughter I and others have had from your posts.
                                If you are coming up north of the Border do let me know and if you can't make it to Fife we could always meet half way and have a "lemonade":).
                                Wishing you and yours all the very best this New Year.
                                 
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