Phobias

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    Who's got one then?

    I have one. For years I thought I had a fear of heights. One thing puzzled me though. I've abseiled off a viaducts and vertical rock faces when I was a bit younger, with my personal record being 170ft. Loved it. I've also been in a plane (37,000 ft), no fear.

    It was while I was at work yesterday, I had to pause to think and as I did so I leaned back. I didn't trust the backrest of the chair and I was not at all at ease, so had to sit forward. Had the chair of tipped me out, I'd have no doubt been laughed at (I'd laugh if I saw it) but I wouldn't have been hurt. Then a thought struck me, I have no irrational fear of heights, I have an irrational fear of falling.

    I've told you mine, what's yours?
     
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    I have a fear of forums Dave...........looks around


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      You've opened a can of worms here Clueless! :heehee: Where would you like me to start?

      Heights, tunnels, aeroplanes and guns. I have never liked guns and it wasn't until two years ago I discovered it was more than that. I'd gone with my family to a clay pidgeon shoot and as we pulled into the car park I could hear the guns and froze in my seat. I was shaking, close to tears and on the brink of vomiting. I left the family there and went shopping. When I returned to pick them up I parked as far away from the shooting area as possible.

      Oh and another one, I don't like being in a crowd of people.
       
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        No phobias at all but a lot of dislikes :heehee:
         
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        Cows........i'm fine if there is a fence between us but i can't walk through a field of them....Last year i was walking in the Yorkshire Dales and ended up takeing a 9 mile detour because it meant i'd have to walk through a field of them....i did cut the corner off one field with them in but i ran like a Whippet.....it was a gold medal winning sprint i can tell you:phew:
        I'm not a fan of flying....
        But my biggest fear is lifts......you'd have to knock me out to get me in one:runforhills:
         
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          I am also similar to clueless in regards to heights/falling etc. I hate sitting in a car which is driving along a narrow street up the mountain with a cliff on the open side.

          also, last summer I had an episode where I had to descend a set of stairs with no banister at either side and my friend had to come back and get me because I was absolutely paralised!
          And even so I had to sit down in the middle of the steps and descend that way!
           
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          I have a phobia about one roundabout, a big one with lots of lights, lanes and accidents. I avoid it.

          Use to panic in shops and any public place. Took 5 years to get over it. Before that I travelled around the world alone,
           
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          I've stood on top of Wells Cathedral with no problem, but you put me up a wobbly tower scaffold & you can watch the Zig quake:yikes:

          Oh, Wasps and accidentally touching Slugs.
           
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            Telephones. It has taken me years of desensitising to be able to even stop in the house when the phone rings. One day I might even be able to answer it. I can speak on the phone when someone else answers and I know who is ringing and why.
             
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            Like clueless, heights. Never bothered me at all when I was younger. I used to do a lot of abseiling web I was younger as clueless says. About 10 years ago the wife and I went to Bristol so she could show me the sights and haunts she used to frequent when she was at uni there. We went to the Cliffton suspension bridge I walked about 15 metres and froze solid, my heart was going ten to the dozen and I could not move. In the end the wife had to get hold of me and guide me off the bridge which took about 10 minutes. I laughed it off an thought nothing of it. When we went to Paris about 3 years later exactly the same happened on the Eifel Tower and Empire State building in New York a few years later. I cannot explain the fear but I steer clear of anything high now.

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            Dislike talking to answer machines :scratch:
             
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            Oranges with their skin on - I can't touch an orange that has not been peeled, the feeling of the skin just creeps me out.

            I can touch a lemon or a lime without any problem, but an orange - no way.
             
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            Feet, not the appearance of, but if i am doing something i am terrified i am going to drop something on my foot, especially the top of the arch. and if I see someone on the beach say, walking on shingle, my insides knot up to the point of pain :hate-shocked:
             
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