Spiders in the Hibiscus

After pondering a while over why the Hibiscus in my living room is constantly covered in small spiders webs,I decided to get in really close,and i found hundreds of minature spiders crawling all over it.They're so small,that I could only see them in the bright sunshine.On further inspection,I found a medium sized spider hidden in the center of the foliage.This could be mum.I dont mind spiders as a rule,but this plant is in the appartment.
Has anyone any advice on getting them to move out.Should I spray them with something nasty,or should the whole plant go.(at my appartment,I dont have a garden of balcony)
Any advice appreciated.... before the littleones grow up if possible.:D
Thanks
SP.

 

After googling different keywords and reading descriptions of various things,I've come to the conclusion that its a bad infestation of spider mites.My Ivy has it as well.
How do I get rid of them....please

 

I've tried everything to get rid of the *#@%$&!!*s. Even Provado didn't work! I have some plants that want bringing inside for winter so I got some neem oil from eBay and am going to try spraying with a solution of that. No idea if it will work but I sure hope so. As far as I'm concerned they are the WORST pest EVER !

 

Not sure what you can get in Germany, but look for a spray containing Abermectin, and states that it kills Red Spider Mite.

I've not tried Neem oil, but as its an ornamental plant I'd just go for a killer rather than trying the organic approach.