Spring Project - Memorial Garden

Discussion in 'Garden Projects and DIY' started by CreakyJoints, Apr 2, 2016.

  1. CreakyJoints

    CreakyJoints Gardener

    Joined:
    Jun 10, 2015
    Messages:
    100
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    South East Scotland
    Ratings:
    +167
    Since my Mum sadly passed away at the end of February, I have decided to make my front garden into a Memorial Garden.
    It's a long, narrow strip 3m wide by 12.55m long.
    There is currently a row of mature shrubs along one side against the boundary fence, with a mature eucalyptus tree at the far end.
    Starting from nearest to my door, the shrubs are - cherry laurel, photinia "Red Robin", buddleia, holly, pieris "Forest Flame" and the eucalyptus gunnii at the far end. There are also two beech saplings behind the pieris and another shrub I'll need to identify.
    In the top corner opposite the eucalyptus, there's a clump of crocosmia "Lucifer" and another small tree I've yet to identify between the crocosmia and the eucalyptus.
    In summer, there's a red peony in front of the crocosmia and I noticed a small, white campanula persicifolia flowering between the peony and crocosmia last year.
    There is also a clump of day lilies and some spring bulbs (crocus, snowdrop, daffodil).

    The garden as it is has the feeling of a woodland edge. My Mum loved woodland, so I'd like to use that as a theme for my memorial garden.
    Could anyone give me an idea of which flowers I could plant to compliment this area please ?
    I haven't tested the soil yet (I have a testing kit but have lost the instructions - it's a TestWest kit I have.), but as the shrubs already there are thriving and all flowering every year, I'm guessing the soil is on the acidic side ? The pieris is just starting to flower now with a few open clusters and lots of buds. The cherry laurel is starting to develop flower buds too now, with the photinia, buddleia, holly and eucalyptus not flowering until later on in the year.
    The garden is in full sun all day throughout the summer months but is exposed to wind from both East and West all year round.

    Here's a photo to show the general layout. I've added arrows and text naming each shrub/plant, a star to mark where the peony comes up, a triangle to mark the unknown tree between the eucalyptus and crocosmia and marked North, South, East, West on the bottom of the photo. 2012-09-14 21.50.50 - Copy.jpg

    I'll be puting a fence up behind the row of shrubs to provide a secure boundary, (I have 2 dogs), and will be puting up a temporary fence alongside the path/wheelchair ramp to stop my puppy from jumping up onto the ramp. The fence at the top of the picture has plastic coated chicken netting attached on the inside to keep the dogs in, and I'll be puting another fence across the bottom (where the blue wheelie bin is) with a gate in it to keep my dogs in/my neighbour's young children out.

    So far, I've bought an azalea (Azalea "Brilliant" - grows to 6 - 10 ft tall & wide, evergreen with bright red flowers in spring) to plant, probably this side of the photinia, and I'm waiting for a rose (Harkness rose - "Celebrating Life" - lilac/pink flowers)which should be delivered this week.

    I'm open to suggestions for more plants/flowers suitable for woodland to create my memorial garden :)
     
    • Friendly Friendly x 4
    • Like Like x 3
    • Informative Informative x 1
    • BeeHappy

      BeeHappy Total Gardener

      Joined:
      Feb 19, 2016
      Messages:
      4,316
      Occupation:
      Mother Nature's Garden Apprentice
      Location:
      Happy in the Garden of W' Eden ;)
      Ratings:
      +6,133
      @CreakyJoints so pleased to see you on the forum been in my thoughts bless you :smile:
      Great idea for your garden hope this link for sunny windy exposed planting ideas is helpful http://www.shrublandparknurseries.co.uk/shop/index.php?main_page=index&cPath=31_34_132 i've also got lots of seeds that i collect throughout the year that i would love to donate to your Mams memorial garden various Lungworts, Aquilegia's,Honesty, Borage, Cornuta,forget me nots pink and blue well its probaly easier if you click on the link for me albums and see what it is you don't have and like :) ...please just say:blue thumb:
      Rather liked this one on the link akebia_quinnata_MED.jpg
      Akebia quinnata
      Common Name: Chocolate Vine but then i like anything related to chocolate :whistle:
       
      • Friendly Friendly x 2
        Last edited: Apr 2, 2016
      • CreakyJoints

        CreakyJoints Gardener

        Joined:
        Jun 10, 2015
        Messages:
        100
        Gender:
        Female
        Location:
        South East Scotland
        Ratings:
        +167
        Oh @BeeHappy , thank you. That's so generous of you:spinning:
        I've had a look but I'm afraid I'm one of those "I want all of them" people when it comes to plants, lol. Some Honesty and Aquilegia would be lovely thank you.
        I'll be looking on your website at some point soon to buy plants for both my front and back gardens (back garden is sheltered, sunny, free draining neutral - slightly alkaline sandy loam).
        Could you let me know when you have more Eryngium bourgaii "Picos Blue" in stock please ? No doubt I'll find lots more to buy though. :)
         
      • Beckie76

        Beckie76 Total Gardener

        Joined:
        Jan 26, 2015
        Messages:
        3,123
        Gender:
        Female
        Location:
        Near Bury St Edmunds in Suffolk
        Ratings:
        +8,435
        Hi @CreakyJoints, it's lovely to see you back on the forum :grphg: you are very much in my thoughts.
        How about a rose out there somewhere, there's a really lovely Rose called 'In loving memory' it's bright red & really pretty :dbgrtmb:. I can't set up the link but tap it into Google & see what you think!
        I shall look forward to watching your progress :dbgrtmb:
         
        • Friendly Friendly x 1
        • clueless1

          clueless1 member... yep, that's what I am:)

          Joined:
          Jan 8, 2008
          Messages:
          17,778
          Gender:
          Male
          Location:
          Here
          Ratings:
          +19,597
          How's about some native woodland clearing flowers.

          Snowdrops, bluebells, honesty, white campion, pink campion all spring to mind.
           
          • Agree Agree x 2
          • CreakyJoints

            CreakyJoints Gardener

            Joined:
            Jun 10, 2015
            Messages:
            100
            Gender:
            Female
            Location:
            South East Scotland
            Ratings:
            +167
            Sorry about the delay, my neighbour called in to see me.
            Thanks @Beckie76 I have ordered a rose which should arrive in the next week. I liked the look and name of this one - http://www.suttons.co.uk/Informatio...oses/Rose+Plant+-+Celebrating+Life_245348.htm

            I see they have Rose "Loving Memory" too, which I like and will buy at a later date - http://www.suttons.co.uk/Gardening/Flower+Plants/Roses/Rose+Plant+-+Loving+Memory_255815.htm

            I also bought this azalea which was delivered on Friday morning. My Mum loved rhododendrons and azaleas - http://www.suttons.co.uk/Gardening/...Azelea+Evergreen+Plant+-+Brilliant_254720.htm

            @clueless1 I think that's a great idea. I have some wild primrose seeds and a few other packets of native wildflower seeds. I'll get some sown either in pots/plug trays or in situ to flower next year. I need to get the fencing done first before I can think about plants.
            I was wondering about native cornfield flowers too, like you see in the field margins between a hedge and a crop field ? Poppies, cornflower, ox-eye daisies etc. Or, maybe do something like a wildflower meadow type of planting with a narrow grassy path meandering through it ?
            My Mum would have loved that too because she grew up in this rural village :spinning:
             
            • Like Like x 1
            • clueless1

              clueless1 member... yep, that's what I am:)

              Joined:
              Jan 8, 2008
              Messages:
              17,778
              Gender:
              Male
              Location:
              Here
              Ratings:
              +19,597
              Wild primroses. I knew I was forgetting a stunner. They are beautiful.
               
              • Agree Agree x 1
              • Beckie76

                Beckie76 Total Gardener

                Joined:
                Jan 26, 2015
                Messages:
                3,123
                Gender:
                Female
                Location:
                Near Bury St Edmunds in Suffolk
                Ratings:
                +8,435
                @CreakyJoints, wow that Rose is beautiful :dbgrtmb:, great choice :blue thumb:

                I got into bed last night & thought cowslips, CJ needs cowslips! My nan loved those :)
                 
                • Agree Agree x 1
                • BeeHappy

                  BeeHappy Total Gardener

                  Joined:
                  Feb 19, 2016
                  Messages:
                  4,316
                  Occupation:
                  Mother Nature's Garden Apprentice
                  Location:
                  Happy in the Garden of W' Eden ;)
                  Ratings:
                  +6,133
                  @Beckie76 and @clueless1 :goodpost:s. Exactly what I was thinking ..hey great minds n all that :yes: as I've said there all in me garden :dbgrtmb:@CreakyJoints I have all the above seeds so please once again I can gladly send them to you bless you ...i lost my Mam at only 57 but she is the reason for my love of gardening and the place that I feel closest to her we talk constantly and i often ask her advice and every year i have at least one self seeded Godetia in my wildflower borders :scratch: .....so I have a chuckle as I'm sure she is too they were one of her favs but being very blousy May West types... very similar to one of your Mams favs Azaleas ....she knows their too fancy to sit amongst the cornflower, poppy,flax,oxeyed daises,fox and cubs,calendula,etc but she still seems to get one in .....:whistle: that's her norty sense of humour ;) please look at the link at the bottom of my page next to my signature my wild flower pics are in there
                   
                  • Friendly Friendly x 3
                    Last edited: Apr 3, 2016
                  • Anthony Rogers

                    Anthony Rogers Guest

                    Ratings:
                    +0
                    Hi CJ,
                    Looks like you've git a nice little garden there :)

                    Have you thought of something like a Pyracantha to attract more birds?

                    How about a Fuchsia, but not a modern blousy one. Something like " Hawkshead " ( all white ), " Gracilis " , or " Riccartonii " ( both red/purple ).


                    Here are a few more suggestions for you, annual Lupins, Candytuft, Clarkia, Mignonette, annual Chrsanthemum, Toadflax ( Linaria) and Linum.

                    They're all nice old fashioned things which should fit in with what you're trying to achieve.
                     
                    • Like Like x 2
                    • CreakyJoints

                      CreakyJoints Gardener

                      Joined:
                      Jun 10, 2015
                      Messages:
                      100
                      Gender:
                      Female
                      Location:
                      South East Scotland
                      Ratings:
                      +167
                      @BeeHappy Oh wow, you have some beautiful flowers there. I could list everything I like but I'd be here all day :snorky:. I do like the Centaurea Amethyst In Snow :wub2:. Out of interest, Amethyst was my Mum's favourite precious stone.
                      My thinking re the azalea AND the wildflower/cornfield planting is that the azalea flowers in spring, about now in fact, and the cornfield/wildflower plants don't flower until summer. By the time those were in full bloom, the azalea would be a green backdrop of evergreen azaleaness :snork:.
                      I'm sure my Mum's love for azaleas and rhododendrons comes from childhood wandering along to the big country estate just a mile along the road from here. You go through the stone gateway, which has a lion on top of each gate post, (known locally as the Lions Gate), then the long driveway is lined with a mixture of native woodland and lots of rhododendrons. I love walking my dogs along there.

                      @Anthony Rogers Thank you :ccheers:
                      It's a lovely little garden which hasn't had anything done with it for at least 20 years. It was my Gran who planted all of those shrubs and the eucalyptus. She was in her 70s at the time and died 14 years ago aged 98. She loved plants but wasn't a "gardener" if you know what I mean. The shrubs came together in an order from Spaldings and my Gran just dug holes and plonked them in :snorky:.

                      Yes to the pyracantha, I do like to help wildlife where I can so that's a great idea.
                      My Mum liked the older type of fuchsia too so that's another good suggestion.
                      I have a few lupins that I grew from seed. Supposed to be mixed but they all produced purple & white flowers, so those would fit in with what I'd like the front garden to look like. They are still in pots :redface:, because I didn't know where to put them. I had fencing, raised beds and a raised gravel area put up in my back garden last summer so that's why I have plants still in pots. Seed sown in autumn 2014, flowered all summer last year and are now putting out lots of new growth so probably best to plant them now :cool:.
                      I'll have a look through my seed packets because I'm sure I have some annual chrysanthemums, linum and toadflax. I don't have any godetia or clarkia seed so I'll buy some, and I've never heard of mignonette before so I'll look into that too. My plan is to have year round interest in the front garden. The back garden will have an area for growing veg and wildlife friendly cottage garden type planting. The back garden isn't very big either at 8m long by 4.56m wide, so careful planning will be needed to fit everything in :spinning:
                       
                      • Friendly Friendly x 2
                      • CreakyJoints

                        CreakyJoints Gardener

                        Joined:
                        Jun 10, 2015
                        Messages:
                        100
                        Gender:
                        Female
                        Location:
                        South East Scotland
                        Ratings:
                        +167
                        Here's the cherry laurel. It had shot upwards and outwards last year after the wet summer we had. Because it was starting to block the path down to the back garden, I got a man in to give it a hard trim. It is now half the height it was in this photo - now level with the roof of the shed.
                        I'll need to get out and do a bit of pruning again to keep the growth in check where the path runs in front of it. It's starting to grow outwards again already.
                        That shed in the bottom corner of this photo is at least as old as I am (49) if not older. Apart from the floor needing replaced and the bottom 2 rows of tongue and groove needing replaced, this shed is still sound and in good condition for its age.
                        My Mum had wanted to get rid of it and replace it with a smaller one, but I think I'll keep it and have any necessary work done to repair it. It's a solidly built 8' x 6' shed and still has the original lock on the door.

                        2012-03-01 21.53.55.jpg

                        This photo was taken from my front door, (well, my only door because I'm in an upstairs maisonette :snorky:). From my door, you go down the steps you can see then turn right to go into my front garden. My wheelie bins will be relocated once I've had some paving put down at the opposite end of the shed. Between the shed and my back garden, there's an ancient concrete coal bunker (still in use as I have a coal fire). There's a space behind the coal bunker which is roughly 5' wide by 8 or 9' long. That's where the bins will be going so I'll have more planting space where they are right now.

                        This next photo was taken from the top of my front garden, beside the eucalyptus tree, looking down towards my back garden.
                        I'm not sure what the little shrub on the left, against the wheelchair ramp, is.
                        2012-09-14 21.52.02.jpg

                        Close up of the little shrub. If I remember correctly, it has little spires of creamy white flowers in summer.

                        2012-09-14 21.54.54.jpg

                        Here's a close up of the cherry laurel. It's roughly 8' high now (level with the roof of the shed but starting to put out new upward growth) since being cut back last year, but I'll have to get it cut back around the sides now to shape it and stop it from expanding any further outwards. I'll have to do that very soon before the local wild birds start building nests again. There were 2 nests, (small ones, possibly robin, dunnock or chaffinch although there's a possibility it may have been house sparrows...the cherry laurel is full of sparrows all summer. They use the leaves to lie on for a bit of sunbathing and you could hear them still chirping in there after dark :cool:), used but recently vacated, in the cherry laurel when I had it topped last September.

                        2012-09-14 21.55.32.jpg

                        Close up of the flower buds starting to form on the cherry laurel.
                        2012-09-14 21.55.19.jpg

                        This photo is a close up of the flowers on the pieris "Forest Flame". There are a few open like this already but the whole shrub is covered with new flower buds waiting to open.
                        2012-09-14 21.52.44.jpg
                         
                        • Like Like x 3
                        • merleworld

                          merleworld Total Gardener

                          Joined:
                          May 30, 2011
                          Messages:
                          2,673
                          Gender:
                          Female
                          Location:
                          Manchester
                          Ratings:
                          +4,087
                          What was your mum's favourite colour? Just thinking you could get a lovely Rhodo with blooms that colour.
                           
                          • Like Like x 3
                          • CreakyJoints

                            CreakyJoints Gardener

                            Joined:
                            Jun 10, 2015
                            Messages:
                            100
                            Gender:
                            Female
                            Location:
                            South East Scotland
                            Ratings:
                            +167
                            My Mum's favourite colour was green @merleworld :snorky:
                            But...she loved flowers of every kind, so anything will be fine as long as it can grow in the conditions in my front garden.
                            The top end of the garden, (from the buddleia up to the eucalyptus), is fully exposed to wind from every direction. The bottom third has some protection from winds by the house (shelter from West winds), both mine and my neighbour in the next block's fences (shelter from East winds), and is sheltered from the North by my cherry laurel and the shed.
                            The soil is slightly acidic, freely draining sandy loam. In sun all day with some dappled shade under the shrubs and eucalyptus. :spinning:
                             
                            • Friendly Friendly x 1
                            • Everhopeful

                              Everhopeful Gardener

                              Joined:
                              Mar 23, 2016
                              Messages:
                              160
                              Gender:
                              Female
                              Location:
                              Clackmannanshire
                              Ratings:
                              +433
                              This has got to be one of the most beautiful conversations I've ever read on any forum.
                              :star:
                               
                              • Friendly Friendly x 2
                              Loading...

                              Share This Page

                              1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
                                By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
                                Dismiss Notice