YAWN YAWN WAKEY WAKEY PART 2....... 2019

Please @moyra don't apologise it's good to offload and we're all here to support each other.
If you are able then perhaps you could sit Steve down and let him know how you really feel, sometimes I think we Mums soldier on despite how we feel because deep down we still feel the need to do 'Mumsy' things for our children .....despite their age!!
Yes when they are young then of course we always have to put their needs first but there comes a time when this balances out and as adults our children should be able to recognise our needs are of equal importance and step in to assist us whenever possible.
If this isn't agreeable to him then I think you should suggest he finds his own place as you think it would be more beneficial for both of you....he needs his independence and you need to have time to focus on your health and wellbeing. I am always here to lend an ear and offer advice ( for what it's worth) and support either on this thread or via a pm. Look after yourself, your son is big enough to cope. Hugs x

 

Good morning everybody and many thanks @Upsydaisy for your kind words. Steve is 56 too old for him to change now not when he is smoking pot, he feels he is always in the right. Well this wont get Amber walked so I better get my skates on.
God bless.

 

Morning all.
Oh dear @moyra , I didn't realise the full extent of your situation, it must be both heart breaking and very stressful for you .
Not wanting to pry , but if you do not feel safe when he's on a high then please seek help, your Dr should be able to steer you in the right direction for help and advice.

It's easy for me to say that I still wouldn't put up him but obviously I can't fully appreciate your situation. But I'm always here for you to share with. Look after yourself .

 

If pot is marihuana they say it is so beneficial for pains. I read an article where somebody had 5-6 joints a day for a total expense of £250 a month which the NHS did not provide for but they said it was so worth it!

 

Yes it's been used for many years by some for pain relief, but not sure if this is relevant to what we were talking about.

 

Good morning everyone. @miraflores there' cannabis and there is cbd oil or cream. CBD is extracted from the cannabis and is good for joint pains but the TNC in Cannabis is what is illegal and does your brain in. I use the CBD cream and am told if I keep using it will eventually improve the problems I have with my Knee and legs. My son smokes the original plant and it makes him really ratty at times and I cannot stand the smell of it.

Have a good day all thanks again @Upsydaisy for your kindness. Stay safe and well, God bless

 

Morning everyone , exactly @moyra ,CBD is widely used my sister uses it for her knees too.
But sadly what you are having to deal with is a totally different kettle of fish.

Enjoy the sun and try and have a relaxing day with Amber.

 

Busy day here too, just got home and having a quick meal before heading outside. So much to do in both gardens ( Dad's ) before having to stay and look after my sister after she has her 2nd lot of surgery in 2wks time.

You sound just like my brother @shiney ....he always says he's doing mounds of 'paperwork' too. Never actually see any though!! Most of his really is like ours, all online. With him I think he likes to sound busy!!!!

 

Good morning
We have another sunny day commencing quite nicely here. I've begun loads of laundry to hang out to dry and lots of other chores to catch up on. Later this afternoon my daughter in law will be popping round for some of my home made espresso ice cream before we go to pick up my grandson at school. She is showing me the pick up area, etc so that if she needs me to pick him up in the future, I'll know where to find him.

It is recycle, rubbish, large item pick up day today and I am happy to be rid of more things I did not need or want to store any longer.

I have one cannabis plant ready to harvest so will cut it down and trim to hang for drying. I make CBD oil and edibles but I don't smoke the stuff. I don't like the "stoned" feeling so am careful to keep dosages on the light side. Sure helps take away aches and pains and keeps me motoring along. I've been in good form the last few weeks so haven't used any but am glad I have it in case of need

Have a lovely day everyone and play safe

 

Good morning everyone,we have another lovely day to look forward to.
Could be the last for a long time so use it wisely

Have fun.... and definitely no paperwork @shiney ...OK.

 

Good morning everyone, Good for you, @Canadian Lori if it helps and you can extract the oil and get it to help you function. I use muscle and joint CBD cream on my knee which is particularly painful at the moment.

Have a good day everyone, wrap up warm and dry and enjoy the sunshine while it lasts.
God bless.

 

Morning all, lovely and sunny here but a cool wind, tomorrow is rain, so going to make the most of it this afternoon as my husband is at work this am.

 

You can go to a chemist these days and buy CBD which is just the oil, you don’t have to smoke the real stuff.